Jesus Christ, I lost a whole week? How the hell did that happen?
It was an eventful week - my last week at the thrift shop. I was breathing a major sigh of relief on the drive home Friday night. In fact I engineered my own private celebration for the famous final commute.
First of all it was a sunny, relatively warm night, which we have had precious few of in May. Delicious.
I brought along an Allman Brothers CD from the last concert they ever performed - October, 28, 2014 at the Beacon Theatre in NYC. Smokin' hot performance - the band understood the significance of the event and how very much it meant to their fans, and they were up to the task.
I still shake my head at parts of it in awe and disbelief.
I also brought along a nip of Crown Royal, which I snuck into the freezer at work so it would be properly chilled.
Before you start lecturing me about sippin' on a nip behind the wheel, save your breath. There have been times in my life (stupid, I admit) when I drove with a 750 ml bottle of Crown in my hand, merrily sipping it as I went. A nip ain't nothin', baby. If you get stopped you just chug it down, slide it into your pocket and say "Good evening, officer - how is your day going so far?"
Anyway, got the Brothers blasting, I'm leisurely sippin' away on fine whiskey, got the windows cracked a couple of inches, and I am feeling released, free as a bird, light as a fucking feather.
The thrift shop gig did not work out. It quickly became a burdensome weight, dragging me down into an ocean of despair, Mafia execution style, like a concrete block tied to my ankles.
(Editor's note: Wasn't quite that bad; I keep telling you I love words - just love to throw words together that sound good to me).
So here I go again. Starting tomorrow. Act 369. One more chance to reset my life.
Everything is apocalyptic to me. I don't see shades of grey, or stepping stones or neatly planned out life-moves.
I look at every move, every change, as this major fucking thing in my life. "Holy shit - I gotta make the most of this, gotta handle this right because if I don't I am positively screwed".
Truthfully, I have probably wasted chunks of my life with this kind of thinking.
Generally, life doesn't work that way - you bump along getting into this, trying that, little by little, no major nuclear explosions, and hopefully somewhere along the way you find this thing called happiness.
However, when you are suddenly sixty three years old, semi-retired, "shorter of breath and one day closer to death", to quote Pink Floyd - the challenge of getting it right does take on a little more weight.
I think I am making the right move with this job. The Capitol Center for the Performing Arts. I like the sound of that. I fucking love the sound of that.
I will try not to be apocalyptic about it. I just want to be happy there; I just want to be invested in and interested in and very good at this job.
I want to settle this work thing for a while so I can fiercely concentrate on making my soul happy, baby. Not hating my job will go a long way to opening up my diseased brain to possibilities.
Things I can do that emanate from my soul, my spirit, my essence, that will make me happy and bring a little more money in this house to make our lives easier and inspire hope of a dignified retirement.
Oh shit - did that sound apocalyptic?